January 2016: I packed up my bags, bid farewell to the city and home I was born and grew up in, and moved across the country with my cat in tow. From sunny beachside towns in Los Angeles to bundling up in winter layers on the streets of New York City, so began the whirlwind of 2016 for me, and now what feels like suddenly, I’m staring down the barrel of year’s end.
Too often, I get asked, “Why New York City? Why move away from home?”
Many reasons flit to mind, but ultimately, it all comes down to a sort of visceral reaction to this city I could never shake off. It’s like when you read a novel or watch a film: you either get immersed in it and emerge back out with thoughts that plague you to night’s end, catalyzing fiery ideas and questions… or it all just falls flat.
To say it has been an easy transition would be a wild exaggeration, but to say that it got easier as the months flew by would be a more accurate statement. If anything, this year has taught me that I can venture out of my comfort zone alone and come back better and stronger. I can’t say I’m the same person from a year ago, because the truth about life is that you only start discovering the great things about yourself and the space around you after you’ve mustered up the courage to let go of the comfortable, the easy, the settling. It’s scary to let go of what’s familiar and safe, but you reap so much reward when you do so. Trust me, I experienced it first-hand this year.
Now that my first year in New York City is coming full circle and I’m finding myself more adjusted to the cold (although, if you ask me again in frozen February how I feel, I might have a different answer for you), I’m so pleased I can reflect upon this year and feel grateful that I was bold enough give myself up to uncertainty to chase after daunting dreams, and understand that my life doesn’t have to peak at “good enough.” I hope that come 2017, you too will be inspired to run after new opportunities that will push you to bigger, stronger, and greater, because you owe it to yourself to live the life you love, or at least try.
ladolcenina says
Beautiful outfit! xoxo
josephine says
Thanks love! Happy Wednesday! xx
Lora says
I know that uneasy feeling that you get when you realize time flew by – but it’s a wonderful thing sometimes. I love the title of this post and your outfit is so on point!
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josephine says
So sweet! Thank you Lora!! xx
AikA❤︎ 【愛香】 (@AikasLoveCloset) says
I totally feel you babe! And I am so proud of you that you are so brave!
I am originally from japan, and came to Seattle all by myself- no family here.
Of course I still have to face a lot of struggles and being here without my family so close gets me in the depression moment, but I am so happy that I am pursuing my life dreams here in the US!
xo from Seattle,
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josephine says
Aw thank you!! You’re so amazing moving to Seattle from Japan by yourself! Seattle is an amazing city and I’m so glad to hear you’re pursuing your dreams there 🙂 I wish you all the best!!
Olga Pancenko says
Lovely styling
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josephine says
Thanks girl! xx
mainou says
Love the outfit! =)
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josephine says
Thanks Mainou! xx
saim says
Beautiful style, beautiful color combination, beautiful pictures!!
Regards.
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josephine says
Thank you!
Rachel Liwanag says
Love the faux fur vest! would love to move in NY too, just don’t know when it’ll happen
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josephine says
Thank you, Rachel! Soon, hopefully! 🙂
Anaivilo says
New York seems like a distant planet to me, it’s just much more complicated for me to get there and I imagine that the lifestyle is much more dynamic and hectic. I admire the people who find themselves loving it!
Gorgeous outfit, the coat is really classy 😉
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Priscilla says
So inspirational! You’re right, we should chase our dreams and get out of our comfort zone. Love the outfit!
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josephine says
Thanks so much Priscilla! Best of luck to you 🙂
stylelullaby says
I love your outfit! You look so cozy and the setting is just so festive. Makes me excited for 2017. Cheers to a new year of chasing dreams and making big leaps! xo, sharon
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josephine says
Cheers, Sharon!!
yuka says
wow you are so brave to pack up and go. moving across country is one of the most adventurous things you can do. Especially going from sunny ca to freezing cold ny but it sounds like you are adjusting well. and bonus, you look like a true new yorker in the all black look! I love it!
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josephine says
That means so much! Thanks Yuka! xx
Missy May says
Now that’s a cosy and perfect outfit for winter. You look wonderful and beautiful! 🙂
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josephine says
So sweet, thank you!! xx
Alita Claudia says
simple yet sophisticated! happy new year xx
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josephine says
aw thank you!! xx
Suzy Walsh says
You look great!
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josephine says
Thank you! xx
Erica says
Welcome to NYC dear!! Hope you had a seamless move, and wishing you all the best in your new home! Stay warm 🙂
Erica
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josephine says
Thank you for the sweet words, Erica! xx
Style Link Miami says
Loving this all black look, Josephine! Check us out if you ever need any inspiration
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josephine says
Thanks Shaundrick! xx